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Is there such a thing as post tramatic syndrome after breast cancer treatment? If there is I got broadsided with it today.Wasn"t prepared for it!!
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anonymous
Survivor since 2003
Morning Jo. I think with anything traumatic in your life it is possible to have a bout with post traumatic stress syndrome And dealing with breast cancer is very traumatic we stay strong we stay positive we keep on moving but yet some days it all seems so overwhelming. What we have been...
5 comments 2Morning Jo. I think with anything traumatic in your life it is possible to have a bout with post traumatic stress syndrome And dealing with breast cancer is very traumatic we stay strong we stay positive we keep on moving but yet some days it all seems so overwhelming. What we have been through and it just never seems to end. Those small mighty pills throw us for a loop. Your journey has been an intense journey I cannot even imagine how it was. Mine was a piece of cake kind of took the easy way out with the multiple mastectomies. So you are definitely entitled to days of being overwhelmed I certainly have those days have myself a little cry then tell myself it's not that bad start to count my blessings and try my best to get through the day. I'll call a friend we'll commiserate together and laugh. You are not alone. Sending you a big big gentle bear hug.
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anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer
Hi I've been down lately myself. People keep telling me how strong I am. I appreciate it but sometimes I don't feel so strong and I hide it. I've been teary eyed for about 3 weeks. Anthi
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Last week I started taking the pill for a form as a cancer blocker. Everyday I get up with a headache and I feel depressed after I take the meds and on top of that I have to take these for 5yrs.What do y'all think I should do??
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anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer
Thanks Sharon will do;)
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anonymous
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I've only had two minor headaches and am not troubled with them now. I'm finishing my third month on Femara and going to talk to the doctor about an antidepressant for those days that are hard. They aren't many for me but when they come I want to run away. Talk to your doctor.
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I'd been diagnosed by invasive ductal carcinoma last year and i'll get my 9th herceptin as the last one because of its hart effect i cant get more i'm too worried about the cancer comes back and some times i become too depressed to do any thing
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anonymous
Survivor since 2011
I am also receiving herceptin until the end of January 2013 or so. You know, my oncologist told me that many studies have shown that 6 months or so of herceptin are as effective as 1 year. Since the data isn't entirely conclusive, my protocol is to stay at a year for treatment, BUT just know...
Comment 1I am also receiving herceptin until the end of January 2013 or so. You know, my oncologist told me that many studies have shown that 6 months or so of herceptin are as effective as 1 year. Since the data isn't entirely conclusive, my protocol is to stay at a year for treatment, BUT just know that studies have shown that less herceptin is as effective. Rest assured that you've received enough to help you fight it off!! GOOD LUCK!
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anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer
Hi, Omid. It is discouraging to have to stop your treatment.Cancer is scary enough, without the medicine that can help you get well, making you sick in another way. Did you have surgery, radiation, or chemotherapy? If you are taking herceptin does that mean you are her2 positive? Try to keep...
Comment 0Hi, Omid. It is discouraging to have to stop your treatment.Cancer is scary enough, without the medicine that can help you get well, making you sick in another way. Did you have surgery, radiation, or chemotherapy? If you are taking herceptin does that mean you are her2 positive? Try to keep posting on this wonderful site. Many women will be able to help you find a way to overcome the fears that sometime make us miserable. I hope you are able to tell all of this to your doctor so he can help you find a way to defeat this disease. Be strong and stay with us. :-D Jo
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35 years old everything going perfect, Never thought I will ever be DX with breast cancer, How? and Why? Tears
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anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer
I understand exactly how you feel because I felt the same way. Once I got through the shock, I focused on treatment. I read as much as I could about my options and leaned on my husband and great friends. I learned a lot about myself through the experience. I am through all treatments and moving...
Comment 2I understand exactly how you feel because I felt the same way. Once I got through the shock, I focused on treatment. I read as much as I could about my options and leaned on my husband and great friends. I learned a lot about myself through the experience. I am through all treatments and moving on with my life. My advice would be to take very good care of yourself through everything. Best of luck to you and keep us posted. God bless you.
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anonymous
Stage 2B Patient
Can't quite get you off my mind tonight. I am a member of a facebook group called We Are Sisters that has been a tremendous help. We started the group right after two women randomly walked me through my first few days of shock finding out I had cancer. I am so thankful for them all, and...
Comment 2Can't quite get you off my mind tonight. I am a member of a facebook group called We Are Sisters that has been a tremendous help. We started the group right after two women randomly walked me through my first few days of shock finding out I had cancer. I am so thankful for them all, and encourage you to join us and ask questions there. It is hard to even know what questions to ask at this point. But I do know the random spinning that your head must be going through. My first day was shock and I was strong. The second day my face kept leaking, even though I didn't break down. The third day, I found myself alone at home and couldn't take it. I went to a bar and "celebrated" boobies. Was not one of my finer moments. The next day I "ran away from home", which ... I kept my family informed of where I was the whole time, but I just felt I needed to get away. The following day, I hid like a hermit and decided I was not fit for public consumption. Finally, I had the day come around that I admitted to myself and my husband that I was ready to comply with whatever was demanded of me. This journey you are about to embark upon is not just a physical challenge. It is an emotional rollercoaster. Know that however you feel is okay. Become selfish for the first time in your life. Start removing all negativity from your life now. Protect yourself from stress and drama. Know that we are out here to embrace you on your sleepless nights. I am having one of those tonight. I used to be sad for people who found out they had cancer. Now it breaks my heart with every new diagnosis. This is not easy, but it is doable. I have so many cool suggestions of things I did to help me through surgery and recovery that I would love to share with you when you are ready. I don't come on this site often, but will try to follow up on you. I want to know how you are doing.
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Any information on counseling for free in Denver? Preferably cancer related...
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anonymous
Survivor since 2007
Here is some I just "googled"
http://www.ucdenver.edu/academics/colleges/medicalschool/centers/cancercenter/
CancerCare/LearnAboutCancer/Pages/CICL.aspx/http://www.amc.org/programs.html
http://www.regis.edu/regis.asp?sctn=sl&p1=pc&p2=sscet
Good luck to you.... take care, Sharon
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anonymous
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Thank you!!
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First mammogram since diagnosis and treatment is Monday. How many ways to say I am nervous? Used to be routine. Not any more. Taking my husband along for support.
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anonymous
Survivor since 2011
Out of everything thing I've done that mammogram made me the most nervous. But it was pure joy when it came back clear. God Bless and good thoughts for your mammogram.
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anonymous
Survivor since 2007
Oh Nancy, I completely understand that first mammogram! Marianne said it all. You will have the weight of the world removed from your shoulders once you get that --all clear--
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Big hugs, hang in there.... we are all with you with fingers crossed. Take care, Sharon
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Does double mastectomy mean removing both breasts? My grandmother just got diagnose with breast cancer again. She's now had it in both breasts so it makes sense, but I'm only fourteen so I'm lost.
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As the days count down to the start of my year long treatment I find myself getting sadder & madder. I am also worrying about minor things like finding a wig Instead of getting my fmla & disability papers signed.
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anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer
You are so normal. In many ways we grieve our old self and the healthy person we once were just as we would in the death of a loved one . I had my diagnotic ultrasound and mammogram on Valentines Day last year and I felt so cheated since my husband and I had worked collectively 69 years to...
Comment 4You are so normal. In many ways we grieve our old self and the healthy person we once were just as we would in the death of a loved one . I had my diagnotic ultrasound and mammogram on Valentines Day last year and I felt so cheated since my husband and I had worked collectively 69 years to retire only to begin the long journey of treatment but this site and these women have been a tower of strength and companionship. Get mad, sad and cry tonight and start again tomorrow. You have a long life filled with joy ahead of you. Shout out to us regularly. Have a good one. Peace keep your heart. Jo ;-D
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anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer
All those feelings Are normal and expected to be honest with you. Anyone who tells you have no right to be angry or you shouldn't be angry has no idea what wer going thru. I'll be praying for you God bless you and it'll get easier as time goes by...promise. Hang in there and pray.
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I had double mastectomy My 1st...started out as a stage 1 now Iam a stage 3...Im very scared...I have to wait to heal before I begin 5 months of chemo then 5 months of radiation...then Hormones....Please if someone can reach out to me...
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anonymous
Survivor since 2011
Kim; as you can see we are all here with you. Xxoo you can do this. My story is very similar to yours. I fought like my life depended on it and today I'm cancer free for 2 1/2 years. You will be here too.
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anonymous
Learning About Breast Cancer
My biggest crying day was when everyone went back to work after Christmas Break and I did not!
Cancer fighting is a different life! As one of the nurses told me- you are having trouble because you are not seeing that good right now is feed yourself healthy, take a walk, take a nap, love your...Comment 0My biggest crying day was when everyone went back to work after Christmas Break and I did not!
Cancer fighting is a different life! As one of the nurses told me- you are having trouble because you are not seeing that good right now is feed yourself healthy, take a walk, take a nap, love your people and call it a good day! There are many women who can do more than that and I wanted to be them! .... But my side effects of treatment needed more rest., and I got there to get it- just took me longer! Each if us has a different set point for the new normal- full range from little side effects to many side effects. Hope for the best!!!!!!
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